5 Must-Read Books for Parents
I don’t know about you, but if someone offered me a step-by-step guidebook to walk me through each stage of parenting, I’d take it. Immediately.
But here’s the thing: what does it actually mean to “do it right”?
Is it raising strong, confident kids? Or having a home full of homemade meals and zero screen time? Is it calm, confident parenting? A full-ride scholarship? Or just not losing your cool before breakfast?
Add in cultural differences, temperament, and each family’s unique values—and suddenly, parenting looks very different for everyone.
Parenting is one of the most rewarding and challenging journeys we take. While there’s no perfect guidebook, there are books that help us feel seen, supported, and encouraged. If you, like me, tend to overthink and strive for “doing it right,” these titles might be just what you need.
1. Good Inside by Dr. Becky Kennedy
If I had to choose just one, it would probably be this one.
I’ve recommended it to friends and read it more than once with my husband. Dr. Becky’s approach is grounded in empathy, boundaries, and connection — with an understanding that every child (and adult!) is wired differently.
Take your time with this one. It’s full of insight that’s worth sitting with.
Why I love it:
- Focuses on empathy and understanding
- Practical strategies for common challenges
- Builds a positive parent-child relationship
Good Inside by Dr. Becky Kennedy
2. How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen by Joanna Faber & Julie Kin
A total game-changer for communication with little ones.
This book is full of real-life examples and tips that are easy to apply — even when you’re running on no sleep. It’s all about validating your child’s feelings while encouraging cooperation (without power struggles).
Why I love it:
- Super practical communication strategies
- Easy-to-follow steps
- Helps reduce daily battles with your child
How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen by Joanna Faber & Julie Kin
3. Bringing Up Bébé by Pamela Druckerman
I read this while pregnant with our first, and honestly, it made me want to pack up and raise our kids in France.
The book offers a charming look at French parenting — with a focus on balance, independence, and structure — and raises thoughtful questions about cultural norms in parenting.
Now that I’ve raised kids in two cultures, I’m more skeptical that any one way is “perfect.” Still, this book opened my mind to how much parenting is shaped by where and how we live.
Why I love it:
- Cultural insights that challenge norms
- Emphasis on patience and independence
- A fun, engaging read
Bringing Up Bébé by Pamela Druckerman
4. The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
This one dives into child brain development in a way that’s both scientific and practical.
It helped me understand why certain behaviors happen, and how to respond in ways that help kids grow emotionally and intellectually. My husband especially appreciated this one — it’s a great read for parenting as a team.
Why I love it:
- Neuroscience made simple
- Tools for understanding emotional outbursts
- Helps nurture long-term emotional growth
The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
5. The Danish Way of Parenting by Jessica Joelle Alexander & Iben Dissing Sandahl
This was one of my favorite “cultural lens” parenting books. Denmark is known for being one of the happiest countries in the world, and this book explores what role parenting plays in that.
From prioritizing play to teaching empathy, it’s full of practical ways to raise emotionally balanced kids while still keeping joy at the center of the family.
Why I love it:
- Emphasis on emotional regulation
- The power of play and connection
- Inspiring ideas for calm, joyful parenting
The Danish Way of Parenting by Jessica Joelle Alexander & Iben Dissing Sandahl
What I’m Reading Now: The 5 Principles of Parenting by Dr. Aliza Pressman
Some days, I feel like I’m rocking this parenting thing. Other days? Not so much.
Reading books like these has helped me feel less alone — and more like the mom I want to be. As Dr. Becky says, “This feels hard because it is hard.”
You’re not failing. You’re just in it. And you’re doing better than you think.
Final Thoughts: There’s No “One Right Way”
If you’re looking for a parenting book that meets you where you are — tired, overwhelmed, doing your best — I hope this list helps. Not because any of them offer perfection, but because they offer support.
Try one. Highlight the parts that make you nod your head. Talk about it with your partner. Share it with a friend. Let it help you feel less alone.
You’re already showing up — and that’s what matters most.
Maddy
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